Are you wounded, victimized by circumstances, or do you feel like a “wounded healer?” How do you get unstuck and empower yourself?
No one makes it through this lifetime without being wounded at some point. When someone or something wounds you – when you feel wounded – you have a choice. Are you the victim or the victor?
The victim often chooses to use the “wounding” as an excuse and justification for their behavior, whatever that may be. Really, if you can see it this way, “wounding” is just a perception. You can change your perception anytime you want.
And in every situation there is opportunity to honor yourself even if no one else does or will. It’s called healthy boundaries. So, are you the doormat or the doorway? Another choice. You can raise your vibration and shine the light anytime you choose.
Patterns of “victim” and “wounded” can last entire lifetimes, possibly repeating over and over with a different face until you get it. The minute you are willing to let go of the need for those patterns, you invite healing into your life. You invite love into your life. Those old patterns go and the new and exciting comes in. It’s transformation.
It takes a great deal of courage to heal. Where do you stand? Are you the coward or the courageous? ~ Dyan Garris
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